What gives you pleasure?

I lay in bed a couple of days ago and gave myself a lie in treat and decided to listen to a radio show through my iphone.  The topic was all about ‘what gives you pleasure’.  As I lay there thinking I knew the answer, it became evidently clear that I needed to go deeper into this subject.

Since becoming a Life Change Specialist, I have put my heart and soul into helping people transform their ordinary lives into lives they love.  In return, I get great pleasure from watching my clients step into their unique shoes by discovering their real self.  The self that loves their life. 

Loving your job and gaining pleasure from it, is only one aspect of living, there has to be pleasure in other areas too.  And as a solopreneur, you can often get caught up in the running of your business (and everything else that comes with it) and before you realise it, you’ve forgotten what it was like to explore new ways of bringing pleasure into your life.

For the rest of the day, I made it my mission to speak to myself (and yes I did it out loud), asking over and over “what gives me pleasure”.  It was amazing how I started to discover myself all over again and realise that unintentionally, I had let some of the fun slip from my life.

Immediately, I began to do some fun stuff for me.  Singing in the shower, making myself laugh, wearing my best clothes, I even took 2 hours off work to visit a tea shop I had never been to.  By the time I got home, I was so uplifted and even more connected to myself that I made a promise to bring more pleasure into my life.

In that moment, a light bulb went on and I thought, if I have done this, then I know for sure that others will have too.  So my question for you to ponder today, is simply, “what gives you pleasure”.

Is there enough Prosperity in your life or could you do with a little bit more?

Living prosperously is something most people want to achieve and we all know how difficult that can be, right?!

Well, here’s a great chance for you to learn from someone who knows exactly how YOU can bring more prosperity into your life.

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I am so excited because I’m honoured to have been given the great opportunity of interviewing Edwene, along with 3 other special guests. 

And of course, my greatest pleasure comes from sharing these gifts with you, my loyal subscribers!

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Can we really Live the Dream?

There aren’t actually many people who are really living their dream, right?  I mean truly living your dream is just for the lucky few who know what their dreams are, right?  And besides, what are dreams anyway, they don’t come true, right? 

Wrong!

Living the Dream is available to every single one of you, you just have to start believing in the ‘I can have it all’ rule and hey presto, the world is your oyster.

Living the Dream starts with mindset.  Just like Henry Ford famously said ‘If you think you can do a thing or you think you can’t do a thing, you’re right’.  If your mindset doesn’t believe you can have it all, guess what, living the dream won’t be on the top of your list of can do’s!  The great news is, you can change your mindset to one which allows you to experience life beyond what you believe possible, you just have to learn and implement the how’s.

Here are my top 10 pointers to help you get on your way to living your dream!

1. Dream Big and Often.  Imagine you are at the airport 5 years from now and you bump into an old best friend.  You have 2 minutes before your flight takes off and you brief them on your life as it is today.  In an ideal world what would your life look like, what would you be doing, who or what would be in your life.
2. Go back to childhood memories, what did you love to do, what made you happy?  It’s very likely that you still enjoy these kinds of things but haven’t made them a priority. Bring these back into your life and start having fun again.  The more you do this, the easier it will be for you to imagine a life filled with dreams
3. Take your Big Dream set goals to help you get there.  A dream life doesn’t come over night and it certainly doesn’t happen without setting some goals.  Break the 5 year dream into bite size goals, for example 3years, 1 year and 90 days. 
4. Do something every day towards your goal, it doesn’t matter how small or big.  Every little thing will contribute to the end result even if it doesn’t seem like it
5. Believe it is possible to live by the ‘you can have it all’ rule, even though you have no idea how to get there right now.  Just believing opens your mind to possibilities
6. Find proof that it’s possible, notice all the people who are living their dream and remind yourself often ‘If they can do it, so can I’
7. Take off your blinkers and open yourself up to the opportunities that completely surround you.  Often your dreams are right in front of you, the only person stopping you from having them is you
8. Hire help to bring out the best in you.  Often we need some education to help us align with the life we dream of, so find an Expert, Mentor, Coach to guide you through the process
9. Clear away the clutter; what beliefs do you have that would prevent your dream life from materialising.  Question the belief, challenge it then change it
10. Make a commitment to live a brilliant life, doing what you love and always find ways of making it happen!  

I truly believe everyone can live by the ‘I can have it all rule’, you just have to switch from impossible to opening a window of possibility, it’s amazing what starts to filter in when you allow it!