Compromise or Have it All?

My husband prefers strawberry jam and I prefer raspberry.  Rather than buy 2 jars of jam, I always used to buy just the strawberry.  Every time I’d reach for the jam, I always wished I had the flavour I preferred but just made do.  I compromised my desire for raspberry jam for my partner, whom I loved.  Seems silly doesn’t it, why didn’t I just go for it and buy an extra jar of jam, ultimately giving myself what I desired and what my husband desired, a win win situation.

I compromised.

Thinking I was coming from a place of love, I gave my husband what he wanted and denied myself what I wanted.  I didn’t share the love with myself.  Ok, so it was only jam but the thing was, it then moved onto the yoghurts.  I rarely bought myself a raspberry yoghurt, it was always strawberry.

I never asked my husband to compromise, I always gave that job to myself.

Then it moved onto trifles, now don’t get me wrong I don’t buy many trifles but I LOVE raspberry trifle but because I’d compromised on the jam and the yoghurt, I compromised on the trifle too.

Do you get where I’m going here?

Let’s take a look at the definition of Compromise: the acceptance of standards that are lower than is desirable.

I was accepting standards that were lower than desirable.  I was selling myself short.  I was giving up on my desires.

Once you compromise in one part of your life, it becomes an acceptable behaviour and in turn gives your permission to compromise in other areas.  I wasn’t worthy of raspberry jam, yoghurt and trifle so why would I be worthy of my other desires?

I’m pleased to say, I knocked that behaviour on the head and ALWAYS have 2 jars of jam and make sure if I fancy a yoghurt or trifle I get what I want.

I no longer compromise because I am worthy.

The love I share with others, I also share with myself.

I go for my desires and ultimately my dreams.

Never again will I compromise on what I want because that’s mediocre living.  Life isn’t about mediocrity, life is about having it all.

You, me, everybody, can have it all.

So let me leave you with this question, where are you compromising in your life and what can you do to change that?

Love,

Natasha x

Find Your Feminine F.L.O.W. (Fulfilment, Love, Opportunity, Wealth) Tip #1

To find your Feminine FLOW (Fulfilment, Love, Opportunity & Wealth) you must first clear your clutter. Start by making a decision to heal the childhood traumas that are affecting your present & ultimately your future. This is essential, otherwise your capabilities will always be capped.

Living YOUR Purpose musing, journal entry 11 April 2011

Living YOUR Purpose isn’t about pushing or chasing or living someone else’s dream or forgetting you have a purpose.  Living YOUR Purpose is about being YOU, the REAL YOU without letting fear, doubt or worry get in your way.  The REAL YOU is the authentic you, the transparent you, the you that is in its natural state of ease and flow.

Pushing and chasing and living someone else’s dream and forgetting you have a purpose isn’t natural, it goes against the grain of who you really are on a fundamental level.

It keeps you stuck, unhappy, in fear, desperate.

Living YOUR Purpose isn’t just about the work you do, it’s about EVERYTHING you do. When you deny yourself of YOU, you aren’t allowing your authentic self to shine through.

Clear your stuff.

Heal your wounds.

Break the non-serving cycles.

Become emotionally available.

When you do you’ll let the REAL YOU shine through.

Love Natasha x

Are you ready to Breakthrough your Success Barriers?

I don’t know about you, but breaking through the barriers that keep me small are at the top of my to do list.  It was only a couple of weeks ago when I had a head on collision with two major barriers that I didn’t realise were lurking in my reality.  My birthday, 16 June, was the day after the total eclipse of the moon, which brought about massive shifts for many people.   In order to shift and transform the realities that no longer serve you, you have to face that which is causing you a low vibration.

In my case, I had a good old dose of the ‘I’m a failure and I can’t do anything right’.  I cried, had a mini tantrum, cried some more then had a great healing session with one of my closest friends, Sasha Allenby and in less than an hour we managed to move through this pattern that I’d been holding onto for 7 years!  Thank goodness Sasha was on hand to get me through it because otherwise I’m not sure my birthday would have turned out to be as beautiful as it was.

The next day I experienced another huge transformation.  Little did I know that I’d been a carrier of the ‘there’s not enough’ syndrome.  I tell ya, that one took a while to uncover, who would have thought, me of all people held that belief inside me..well it just goes to show, even when you’re in the coaching/mentoring/healing business, you still have to work on yourself to clear the pesky little patterns that keep ya capping your capabilities.

Why am I telling you all this?

First of all, I want you to know that I’m human and I go through tough times just as much as you do.  Secondly, if I’m experiencing this stuff and clearing it successfully, then I want to help you do exactly the same.  When I raise my vibration and ultimately my consciousness, I open up the space to allow you to do it too.

So here’s the deal, I had a great opportunity to be part of ‘The Shift – Women On Purpose’ Telesummit organised by Christine Laureano.  Twelve teachers living life on purpose came together to bring you valuable teachings to help you on your journey.

You can still watch these for free just click on the link below and register:

http://wahmcart.com/x.php?adminid=2630&id=9756

As part of my commitment to you, I’d like to work with some of you who are committed to your own success and hence want to breakthrough the current barrier which is holding you back from achieving more Happiness, Fulfilment and Success.  All you have to do, if you haven’t already is watch my video, take notes and answer some questions.  When you’ve you’ve answered the questions I’d like to offer you some time with me.  Now this time is precious and limited, I have a 7 week old baby and for me to give you my time, I have to make sure she’s looked after by someone else.

So here’s the scoop.  I’m offering you 2 x 45 minute breakthrough sessions, you’ll get pre-work, post-work and during the 3 weeks you’ll get homeplay (homework to those who don’t know what homeplay is), plus email support.

All of this for just £147.  Bargain!

If it’s time for you to get closer to living a life you love, then answer the following questions based on my video for ‘The Shift – Women On Purpose’ and email them back to info@natashaabudarham.com.  The first 5 people to correctly answer the questions get to do some serious inner alignment and guess what happens when you align on the inside…yep, you profit on the outside, whether that’s in your business, relationships, health, career, spirituality….any aspect of your life!

Here’s the questions:

1. What are the 3 fundamental steps that I share during the video?

2. List the 5 steps in the ‘Flow Through Process’

3. What AHA’s, insights or learnings did you have through watching the video?

Here’s the link to ‘The Shift – Women On Purpose’: http://wahmcart.com/x.php?adminid=2630&id=9756

You’re half way through the year, be good to yourself and make it your best year yet!

To your Ultimate Happiness, Fulfilment & Success!

Love,

Natasha x

It’s what women want!

Last weekend was magnificent.  I hosted a 2 day Women’s Event in Brussels, Reach for your Dreams: Clarity, Clearing & Creativity (CCC Event), along with 2 very powerful women Helen Kerrison & Linda Nuyts.  My intention was to bring a group of women together & help them gain clarity around their struggles, clear the way for a different outcome & create a new reality for themselves. This is exactly what happened and much to everyone’s surprise, every woman left with so much more.

Every woman in the room had a story to tell, a struggle to lose & a desire to shift their life up a notch.  These women allowed themselves to be vulnerable and in return honed in on an inner power that will always be by there side.  Watching their growth in such a short amount of time was awe-inspiring, so much so that I knew this event had to be replicated & I’ve already set the dates!

On day 1, I told the women this was the start of a ‘movement’, whereby they would be paving the way for other women to say no to settling for second best and yes to having it all.  And that’s exactly what they have done, each one of them felt something very special forming between themselves as a group and also for future women who join us at our events.  When you decide to change something in your life, like letting go of a relationship that is no longer making you happy, giving up a job that you hate in search of one that you love, finding the happiness, meaning or fulfilment that seems to elude you, in fact any change at all, having someone by your side, someone who understands what you’re going through is priceless.  This is what 18 women have created especially for you; a safe place where you can discover what you really want out of your life, find out who you really are and overcome the obstacles that have stopped you from reaching for your dreams.

These women have said they want to support you in return for being supported, all you have to do is join us in UK or Brussels in March for one of the events and you too become part of the ‘movement’.  This event is like no other, you don’t join us for 2 days, experience massive shifts and then leave to fend for yourself.  After this event, you are invited to join the online forum, allowing you to stay connected with me, the speakers & the other women and you are invited to the next CCC event at a much reduced price.

Claudia Fortes said “Two days of transformation and the beginning of a journey to find my true self and my purpose in life. Surrounded by the most wonderful group of powerful and loving women. Guided by the amazing Natasha Abudarham and Helen Kerrison. The shift in me is there and the steps are now for me to follow”

The question I’ll leave you with is “are you going to join us and become part of the new wave of woman who says no to settling for second best and yes to having it all?”

I very much hope you do!

You can watch some video testimonials half way down HERE and all the event details for U.K. and Brussels are at the HERE.

Love,

Natasha

This is what happens when you are mentored by Natasha Abudarham

Marie Phillips joined my 6 month “Go Get It Mentorship” programme in June 2010, this is what she has to say about it

“I was not in a good place when I first started the mentorship.  I was recovering from a broken wrist and had developed a strange syndrome called Algo Distrophy, which, much to my dismay, takes two years to “mend”.  I was extremely worried, not only for my hand, but for my job, my future and what would become of me.   I’m not used to being in-active, I was wracked with guilt for my work colleagues, not just because of the heavy workload they had to carry, but, before falling, I was fast beginning to lose interest in my wonderful job and wanted a changed but never dared admit it!!  I totally blamed myself for being stupid enough to fall in the first place; felt that the world was passing me by, and was afraid that my reign as indispensible “superwoman” would come to an end!!

It was a real boost to be able to talk to like-minded people in Natasha’s Mentorship Group who didn’t say “just relax, you’re getting paid for doing nothing so what’s your problem?”  Natasha made me realise how much “fear” and “trauma” I had stored in my hand, and led me to re-think how I was handling the situation, and helped me to be more specific in defining how I tackled it, from an energy point of view. This was a major shift for me. It wasn’t just about tapping on a broken wrist but targeting the deep emotions I was experiencing through my hand – I had never realised just how much trauma was stored in there and how badly it needed to get out!!.  With Natasha’s help, I stopped “blaming” myself, and indeed my poor hand – I began to accept that it had happened and realised that it didn’t have to be all doom and gloom. I finally had an opportunity and the time to do some work on myself, which I had been longing to do for some time!   From then on I was much more in a “thankful” mode…. “Poor me” went out the window!

I learned so much from Natasha in the months that followed – I self-sabotage myself, but now I can recognise the signs, an invaluable asset!  I was petrified of public speaking, my worst nightmare, but with help and encouragement, and a lot of new tools in my tool-bag to help me with a huge lack of self-confidence, I was able to stand in front of 250 people and give a talk, AND, actually enjoyed it – I can “hold” a room after all and I intend to do it again!!  I had serious blocks about being in-debt and owing money, so much so that at 55 years of age, I’ve never owned a home before – suffice is to say that I move in to my new home in March, and YES, its all mine, and it was not the traumatic experience I thought it would be at all!   I learned that forgiving somebody doesn’t mean you condone their behaviour, that was a biggie for me, I’ve managed to let get of so much in our sessions together, particularly when it came to family, and indeed ancestors.  I learned that I don’t have to be everybody’s dog’s body for them to love me……  Letting go of that alone has changed my life and how I deal with my family, particularly my children. I am loved and I am good enough!!

The list of what I learned about myself seems endless, I could go on and on.  But if I were to sum it up in one word, it would be “empowerment”.  With Natasha’s help I literally empowered myself to do a multitude of things I’ve dreamed of doing. When you realise there is nothing holding you back except yourself……well, there is only one thing to do and that’s … get on with it!  I am, by nature, a “doer”, (in the past usually to my own detriment) – but with Natasha’s guidance, I’ve learned to say “no”, but more importantly, I’ve also learned that it’s all right to just “be”.   I’m so much nicer and kinder to myself than I used to be, and very much more appreciative.  Consequently, my world has definitely changed for the better, I have greater faith in myself and I get nowhere near as overwhelmed as I used to.  I have a much clearer idea of what I want to do with my life, especially where my career is concerned and have so much more confidence in my abilities.  I have learned, FINALLY, after all these years to delegate…….. my work colleagues are very impressed indeed ………..and our team is happier than it ever was!

Natasha has a great gift of being able to get to the heart of the issue….  All of our sessions together, either on skype, phone or in person, all resulted in major “Ah Ha” moments for me….. big eye openers and major shifts in my thinking.  I cannot thank her enough for all the help and encouragement she has given me in the last year.  I have devoured her recommended reading list and have to say, all the books were exactly what I needed, and when I needed them.   In summing up, I’m a firm believer in the old saying “when the pupil is ready, the teacher will appear” – well, I was, and she did!  Thank you Natasha!!”

Marie Phillips, P.A. in the European Commission

Are you consciously creating 2011 or leaving it to chance?

Up until 3 years ago, I used to leave my life to chance and the reason I did that was because I didn’t know any better.  I didn’t know there were specific ways to make big positive changes in my life other than hoping, wishing and praying that things could be different.  Thankfully that is a thing of the past and I’m now able to really live life on my terms by consciously creating a life I love.  Now don’t get me wrong, life isn’t always a breeze, I do face challenges in the same way you do, the difference is that I’m able to navigate my way through them in a way that serves my highest good rather than sends me on a mission of self destruct.

Here are the building blocks I use to consciously create a life I love

1. Know what you want

It sounds simple doesn’t it, but it isn’t always so.  Many people are still stuck in what they don’t want and therefore keep receiving more of the same!  I suggest you sit down in a quiet space where you won’t get disturbed, make sure you have some paper, a pen, a cup of tea and get yourself comfy.  Write down all the things you didn’t want in 2010 but got anyway.  This isn’t the time to judge, criticise or blame yourself or anyone else, this is a time of growth and expansion, so stay out of that low vibration and look at it for what it is.  When you’ve got a minimum of 10 things, ask yourself “if I don’t want this in 2011, what do I want?”.  Make sure you use positive words, this means dis-cluding words like “no, not, don’t, can’t”.  Now add any other goals you want to achieve in the next 12 months.  Go through your list and take out your top 10 aspirations for 2011.  From now on focus only on what you want to achieve, rather than what you didn’t do last year or what you haven’t got right now.  If your focusing on the latter, this is the vibrational frequency you’re sending out to the universe and you’re only going to get more of the same back!

By knowing what I want personally and in my business in 2011, I’ve set 10 firm intentions and I’ve made a commitment to achieving them.  If you can believe it, a couple of them have started to manifest already!  Of course the rest aren’t going to happen on their own, I need to keep my eye on the prize and take the necessary action steps to get there.  This is exactly the same for you too, no resting on your laurels expecting your dream life to fall into place, there’s work to do.  I love my motto “Align on the inside, profit on the outside!”

2. Break the Cycle

Know that you will come up against resistance, sabotage, fear and other stuff that will get in the way of you achieving what you want.  This is normal and can be worked through, you just have to be aware of what’s happening and break the pattern, habit, belief or behaviour which is causing it.  This is when having a Coach, Mentor or Teacher comes in really handy because these cycles are often deep rooted in nature and require someone with skill to get you through them.  I’ve learned that the biggest hurdle when consciously creating a life I love is me!  The same goes for you, so, don’t waste anymore time, take the leap and get over yourself, life gets so much easier when you do.

In the last 3 years I’ve done plenty of ‘inner work’ and let go of many of the things that once held me back from achieving my true potential.  The inner healing has been amazing, if somewhat painful at times.  In doing so, I feel lighter, a deeper sense of happiness and have a connection with my true self like never before.  I know that I have the ability to achieve what I want, so if something isn’t working out, it’s easy for me to pinpoint what is really going on and do what needs to be done to shift myself to a higher place.  I’ve selected my Coach for next year and I can’t wait to take my business to a whole new level, whilst continuing to explore the depths of who I am on a spiritual level.  There will always be ‘work’ to do on myself and I love knowing that with help I can move through anything that gets in my way.

3. Find your tribe

This is so important, your tribe are the people you can turn to no matter what.  They are normally on the same path as you and get where you’re at.  These are the people who have also chosen to engage in their own personal and spiritual awareness and want to create their own reality based on a life they love.  They love you, support you and will be there for you when you need them.  Often they aren’t your parents, family or friends you’ve had since childhood.

When I first started on this path, I didn’t know anyone in Belgium who was on the same path as me.  At times I felt like I was going crazy, until I enrolled in an online Mastermind group.  This was my saving grace!  Each week we would meet over the phone/internet and our teacher would guide us through our challenges whilst sharing new insights with us.  I grew so quickly during these calls, they were invaluable.  It didn’t matter that I was on the calls at 10pm and didn’t get to bed until midnight, I needed this spiritual food and boy did I get fed.  Soon this wasn’t enough, I needed more, so I started my own monthly group and at the first session 16 people turned up, I was amazed!  Two years later the group has about 12 women who still meet regularly and are firm friends.  I hosted the last group in my home this month, it was so rewarding knowing that I had created something so important, not just for me but for the rest of the group also.

In May I re-worked my 2010 goals.  As I knew I was moving back to UK, I set a new intention to manifest my tribe, I wrote “I have a network of friends that I love to spend time with”.  Within a matter of weeks I had made new friends in the UK without ever meeting them and they continue to come into my life.  I’m so excited to get back home as I know I have found my tribe.  Don’t underestimate the power of your intentions nor your tribe!

4. Never give up believing!

There are so many people who give up just before they’re about to hit their high!  It’s such a shame to see people let go of their dreams just because the going got tough and their trust, belief and faith waned.  There is always something waiting for you, much bigger than you can anticipate, but it may take an element of being in the unknown for a while before it comes your way. Keep going, don’t stop and always grab the help that you need when you need it before it’s too late!

I’ve always had an optimistic nature and followed my heart.  There are times when I’ve fallen so hard but dusted myself down and got back up again even stronger than before.  Being on this wonderful path of self discovery ensures that I never give up believing, I’ve enjoyed too much over the last 2 years and it wouldn’t have happened if I didn’t trust, believe and hold the faith that there was a better life waiting for me.  There’s only 1 person who can make sure you get what you want and that’s you!

So there we have it my friends, some guidance to help you consciously create a 2011 with Happiness, Fulfilment and Success!

If it’s time for you to have the guidance, support and mentoring to help you achieve your dreams in 2011, contact me to find out about my new coaching program.  Whatever you want is out there waiting for you to grab hold of it with both hands, don’t let it slip through your fingers again, you’re worth living a life you love.

Love,

Natasha

As always comments and questions are welcome!

What do you do when your plans don’t plan out?

Have you ever made plans that fill you with excitement only to be let down at the last minute?  ”Oh yes!” I’m hearing you all say.  In fact, I don’t think there’s a single soul who hasn’t ever had this experience.  Briefly reminisce the last time this happened and recall how you dealt with the situation.  Did you gracefully accept the situation and move on without it causing any further negative effects or did you launch straight into disasterdom?

Why am I asking you these questions?  Well, this Christmas was set to be a calming delight, the first Christmas as Husband & Wife and the first time we would be spending it in our home, eating just one Christmas dinner.  For the last five years, we’ve spent Christmas day with both our Mums, eating two Christmas dinners and racing around trying to fit everyone in.  As we were staying in Brussels this year, it meant I could relax being five months pregnant and enjoy taking my time packing up our belongings before we move to UK on 2 Jan.

That was the plan and I was excited.

Then everything changed.  My plans were more than scuppered and it was out of my control.

All I could do was practice what I preach and walk my talk.  My experience has been invaluable and I want to share it with you.

Four days before Christmas my Husband, Chris was told that his Nan had had a stroke and had bleeding on the brain, it was just a matter of time before she transitioned.  Chris was deeply upset and wanted to get back to UK to say his last goodbye.  The snow was causing havoc and any which way he tried to get home there seemed to be a problem.  It was 22 Dec and I had a feeling that if he went, he wouldn’t be home for Christmas.  On top of that our cat Mia was really sick and I felt that we may need to get her to the vets at some point, something I wasn’t able to do on my own with all the snow.

Chris kept checking flights and as soon as one came up, he packed a bag and headed off.  I was happy he’d managed to get home and remained positive that we’d be reunited on Christmas Eve and if he wasn’t I trusted that there would be a reason for it to be that way.  After Chris left, I spoke to the vet as Mia hadn’t eaten all day and seemed to be deteriorating.  We agreed to help her transition the following week.  I have 2 cats, Mia and Pudding, they’ve been with me for the last 13 years and have filled my life with love and comfort and have always been such great company.  I called Mia a human cat because she literally needed to have human touch and knew exactly what I was saying when I spoke to her, she was also extremely intelligent and was the fastest fly catcher I’ve ever seen.  She loved to be picked up, stroked and cuddled and often got into bed with me, head on pillow, paws around me.  She was my equivalent of a baby.

Within a matter of hours of making the decision to help Mia, she seemed to get worse and the pain of seeing her suffer told me it really was time for her to go.  I contacted the vet again and agreed that we should bring the time forward to Christmas Eve.  Chris was due back on his flight from UK in the afternoon and we were going to take her together.  The thought of Mia not being around was so painful but I knew this couldn’t be about me, it had to be about her and I had to let her go.  At the same time, it was something that both Chris and I needed to do together, she was an integral part of our family and we had to say our goodbyes as a family.

The next morning I lay in bed with Mia, being in the present and enjoying our last cuddles together.  I was talking to her, letting her know all was well and she’d soon be enjoying a beautiful peaceful sleep where she could rest in comfort.  The snow had been melting the day before and the roads were quite clear, so you can imagine my horror when I opened the front door and my street was covered with a huge amount of snow and it wasn’t letting up anytime soon.  I instantly burst into tears, crying uncontrollably, I knew Brussels airport would be closed and Chris wouldn’t be home that day.  There was no way of me getting Mia to the vet.  I was distraught thinking of my baby having to suffer another day.  I could deal with Chris not being here for Christmas, I just couldn’t deal with him not being here to help me help Mia.

I got onto the internet and it was confirmed, Brussels airport was closed.  There was no way I was going to be able to drive, the snow was too thick and my heart was breaking.  This was a tough, emotionally challenging day and I knew I had to reach out for support from people who were in a position to support me.  With this support I was able to clear my head and let go of any attachments to how my Christmas was supposed to be.  I couldn’t change anything, I just had to deal with it and find a solution that worked.  It was important for me to stay out of any drama that could turn the situation into something more than it was.  By practicing what I preach to my clients, I was able to turn the could-be disaster of Christmas into a delight.

The truth is we create our reality every second of every day, it’s up to us to be vigilant when it comes to creating that which doesn’t serve us.  The Natasha of a few years ago would have created a drama and Christmas would have been a disaster, instead it took an awareness from my side to consciously create a reality that allowed me to enjoy Christmas day, even though my plans didn’t plan out.

Chris finally got home late on Boxing night and we took Mia to peacefully transition the following morning.  It was a painfully emotional day and I know there is more emotion to release, I’m just thankful I was able to salvage some of the festive season.

A big thank you goes out to Helen Kerrison , an amazing friend, for spending a wonderful Christmas day with me and to all my friends & family, including Facebook friends, who shared their love and prayers when I really needed it.

Love,

Natasha

P.S. As always, your comments and questions are welcome!

Decide your way to Success

The last few months have been exciting and hectic to say the least.  I planned my wedding in just under 5 months, managed to get pregnant just before the big day and I’ve been organising my impending return to UK.  There’s nothing like doing all the big stuff at once eh

As I look back on pre-married life, I’ve gained some valuable insights that are sure to hold me in good stead during my married life.  One which I’m going to share with you today is all about making good solid decisions that will allow you to bring pretty much anything new you want to achieve in your life.

I’m sure you can remember only too well some of the decisions you’ve made in the past that didn’t get past the words being uttered from your mouth.  Then there are the decisions that you actually followed through with true brilliance and your success was a masterpiece.  So how can you turn every potential life changing decision into one that gets you where you want to be in your life?

Here’s some tips to help you on your way:

1. The strength of your decision is everything. A half hearted “I’m gonna quit smoking & spend more time in the gym”, probably isn’t going to be strong to follow through on.  When you make a decision to enhance your life in any way, the decision needs to come from a place of inner strength, power and commitment.
2. What’s your reason? This is a really important question to take time to answer. Why is this decision important and what’s your reason for wanting it to stick?  The more reasons you have, the greater the need to achieve.  The greater the need to achieve the more likely you are to stay on track until completion.  As Edison once said ‘‘Many of life’s failures are people who did not realise how close they were to success when they gave up”
3. Have a P.O.A. – Plan of Action. If your decision is to reach your ideal weight, you most definitely want to consider a food plan, an exercise regime and most importantly you need to get educated on the subject.  Follow through is the hardest part of your decision, it’s easy to fall at the first hurdle but when you have a plan of action which also takes into consideration what you’ll do when you do fall, it’s easier to get back on your feet and continue to move forward.
4. Believe you can achieve and you’ll notice opportunities everywhere. That’s right, when you truly believe in yourself and your ability to stand by your decision, you’ll be surprised at what suddenly seems to appear as an open door.  These doors are everywhere, only you’ve mentally closed them because you don’t believe they’re there for you!!
5. Remember the Law of Attraction is always in Action.  The Law of Attraction has recently become more widely known and understood as a fundamental law of the universe.  In short, you attract the people, the places, the circumstances and the events into your life depending on where you focus your thoughts, feelings and attention.  If you focus on the lack in your life, guess what, you will indeed experience more lack.  If your glass is half full, then your life will be more full.

As the great American poet Ralph Waldo Emerson said “Once you make a decision, the universe conspires to make it happen”. Everything you need surrounds you, the people, the places, the circumstances and the events – when you make your solid strong decision to get to where you want to be, you open your mind to every possibility and you become receptive to that which will ultimately lead to your success.

Love,

Natasha

Times are changing, are you?

The World has been going through a huge shift for some time now, many have embraced this change and are reaping the rewards, others are just getting on the boat and many will stay exactly where they are.  The beauty of change is that you have the choice to embrace  it, if you feel called to do so.

Many will have experienced a huge upheaval in their life that will have given them an opportunity to question where their life is at and whether it is giving them what they desire.  This could be a loss; of a relationship, job, health, possessions, loved one or pet or it could be a lack of something which is causing turmoil, pain or upset.  Whatever the upheaval, there is always a chance to turn things around for the better, it’s the ‘knowing how’ which is of vital importance.

Knowing what you want

As with any change , transformation or shift you want to bring into your life, knowing what you want instead of what you’ve got is more helpful.  Not knowing what you want is like getting in a car with no destination, you could end up anywhere!  When you know what you want and you’re clear about it, you have the starting’s of a roadmap to success.  Source, Spirit, God, The Universe, want you to have everything there is to have, why else would we have chosen to come to earth!

Choose another perspective

There’s two sides to every coin and there’s always two sides to your perspective.  You can, in any circumstance choose the perspective which makes you feel good or makes you feel bad.  Everywhere you turn, there’s more news of how the economy is upside down and people are suffering, but here’s the thing, there are millions of people whom the economy has not affected because they chose to not be affected by it.  When you change your perspective you open yourself up to all kinds of opportunities you would have missed otherwise.

Believe in you and don’t stop seeking your greatness

Everyone has a purpose in life and the ability to achieve greatness.  Those who get there are those who have a self belief that causes them to pick themselves up after any fall.  Everything starts with a thought, when you believe in that thought you can manifest anything you want.

Grow through education

Nothing can change in your life unless you learn new ways of being and doing.  If you have a huge money problem, the chances are you need to completely re-educate yourself in the area of finance, how will you be able to make different choices if you don’t know how?  There are so many sources of learning, the internet has really opened this door so wide that nobody has an excuse anymore.  If there’s something not quite right, you need to brush up on your knowledge in that area and my suggestion is that you do it sooner rather than later.

Don’t wait until tomorrow

Tomorrow may never come and you will have just missed out on the biggest chance to shift gears to a whole new life experience.  What’s the point of continuing to miss out today when there is so much out there for you to experience.  Jump on the bandwagon and choose to give yourself what you deserve right now!

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