Day 4: What are you Resisting?

Resistance…..that old Chestnut!  I talk about the reason it shows up, what it means and what you can do about it!

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Decide your way to Success

The last few months have been exciting and hectic to say the least.  I planned my wedding in just under 5 months, managed to get pregnant just before the big day and I’ve been organising my impending return to UK.  There’s nothing like doing all the big stuff at once eh

As I look back on pre-married life, I’ve gained some valuable insights that are sure to hold me in good stead during my married life.  One which I’m going to share with you today is all about making good solid decisions that will allow you to bring pretty much anything new you want to achieve in your life.

I’m sure you can remember only too well some of the decisions you’ve made in the past that didn’t get past the words being uttered from your mouth.  Then there are the decisions that you actually followed through with true brilliance and your success was a masterpiece.  So how can you turn every potential life changing decision into one that gets you where you want to be in your life?

Here’s some tips to help you on your way:

1. The strength of your decision is everything. A half hearted “I’m gonna quit smoking & spend more time in the gym”, probably isn’t going to be strong to follow through on.  When you make a decision to enhance your life in any way, the decision needs to come from a place of inner strength, power and commitment.
2. What’s your reason? This is a really important question to take time to answer. Why is this decision important and what’s your reason for wanting it to stick?  The more reasons you have, the greater the need to achieve.  The greater the need to achieve the more likely you are to stay on track until completion.  As Edison once said ‘‘Many of life’s failures are people who did not realise how close they were to success when they gave up”
3. Have a P.O.A. – Plan of Action. If your decision is to reach your ideal weight, you most definitely want to consider a food plan, an exercise regime and most importantly you need to get educated on the subject.  Follow through is the hardest part of your decision, it’s easy to fall at the first hurdle but when you have a plan of action which also takes into consideration what you’ll do when you do fall, it’s easier to get back on your feet and continue to move forward.
4. Believe you can achieve and you’ll notice opportunities everywhere. That’s right, when you truly believe in yourself and your ability to stand by your decision, you’ll be surprised at what suddenly seems to appear as an open door.  These doors are everywhere, only you’ve mentally closed them because you don’t believe they’re there for you!!
5. Remember the Law of Attraction is always in Action.  The Law of Attraction has recently become more widely known and understood as a fundamental law of the universe.  In short, you attract the people, the places, the circumstances and the events into your life depending on where you focus your thoughts, feelings and attention.  If you focus on the lack in your life, guess what, you will indeed experience more lack.  If your glass is half full, then your life will be more full.

As the great American poet Ralph Waldo Emerson said “Once you make a decision, the universe conspires to make it happen”. Everything you need surrounds you, the people, the places, the circumstances and the events – when you make your solid strong decision to get to where you want to be, you open your mind to every possibility and you become receptive to that which will ultimately lead to your success.

Love,

Natasha

What gives you pleasure?

I lay in bed a couple of days ago and gave myself a lie in treat and decided to listen to a radio show through my iphone.  The topic was all about ‘what gives you pleasure’.  As I lay there thinking I knew the answer, it became evidently clear that I needed to go deeper into this subject.

Since becoming a Life Change Specialist, I have put my heart and soul into helping people transform their ordinary lives into lives they love.  In return, I get great pleasure from watching my clients step into their unique shoes by discovering their real self.  The self that loves their life. 

Loving your job and gaining pleasure from it, is only one aspect of living, there has to be pleasure in other areas too.  And as a solopreneur, you can often get caught up in the running of your business (and everything else that comes with it) and before you realise it, you’ve forgotten what it was like to explore new ways of bringing pleasure into your life.

For the rest of the day, I made it my mission to speak to myself (and yes I did it out loud), asking over and over “what gives me pleasure”.  It was amazing how I started to discover myself all over again and realise that unintentionally, I had let some of the fun slip from my life.

Immediately, I began to do some fun stuff for me.  Singing in the shower, making myself laugh, wearing my best clothes, I even took 2 hours off work to visit a tea shop I had never been to.  By the time I got home, I was so uplifted and even more connected to myself that I made a promise to bring more pleasure into my life.

In that moment, a light bulb went on and I thought, if I have done this, then I know for sure that others will have too.  So my question for you to ponder today, is simply, “what gives you pleasure”.

Is there enough Prosperity in your life or could you do with a little bit more?

Living prosperously is something most people want to achieve and we all know how difficult that can be, right?!

Well, here’s a great chance for you to learn from someone who knows exactly how YOU can bring more prosperity into your life.

Learn more here: www.yourmoneyrelationship.com/4laws

My good friend Helen Kim is a Money Relationship Expert and after reading the book ‘The Four Spiritual Laws of Prosperity’ by Edwene Gaines, she immediately wanted to share the contents with as many people as she could. Now Helen doesn’t mess around, she immediately took the bull by the horns, contacted Edwene and organised a FREE 4-part teleseries, just for you!

I am so excited because I’m honoured to have been given the great opportunity of interviewing Edwene, along with 3 other special guests. 

And of course, my greatest pleasure comes from sharing these gifts with you, my loyal subscribers!

It all starts on starts on Thursday, March 25, 2010 at 4 PM (EST), 1 PM (PST), 10 PM (CET). Learn more and register for this free series now at http://www.yourmoneyrelationship.com/4laws/!

If for whatever reason, you can’t make it, register anyway because you will receive the recorded calls to add to your Prosperity Library!

See (hear) you there!

FREE ticket to the Millionaire Women Bootcamp

I’ve just interviewed the lovely Stephanie Hale on my radio show ‘Europes Secret to Success’.  She’s just given me the low down on her soon to be released book ‘Millionaire Women, Millionaire You’, you can listen to the recording on www.loaradionetwork.com/natasha-abudarham.html.

More importantly, she’s given me a link for you to claim your FREE ticket to the Millionaire Women Bootcamp that’s taking place in London, October 30.  I’ll be there, so make sure you drop me a line to let me know you’re going, it’d be great to catch up with you!

Remember we become what we believe we are and the easiest way to do that is to surround yourself with the same kind of people that you want to become.  Learn from those that have succeeded and you too will succeed!

‘Inspirational Women’ on ‘Europes Secret to Success’

I’m really excited to interview my guests in October because it’s ‘Inspirational Women’ month.  I was introduced to Stephanie J Hale (upcoming guest 5 October) through Lynda Dyer (previous guest 21 September). 

Stephanie has interviewed several women from around the globe who have gone from nothing to everything. She’s documented their rise to success in her soon to be released book, ‘Millionaire Women, Millionaire You’.  To compliment the book, she also co-founded ‘The Millionaire Bootcamp for Women’, where several of the women featured in the book are going to share their secrets to success.

I’m hoping to go to the bootcamp myself, I can’t think of a better way to spend a weekend than with a bunch of successful women! 

If you want to know more about the book you can visit the website www.millionairewomenmillionaireyou.com/ and likewise details of the bootcamp can be found here http://www.millionairewomenmillionaireyou.com/

Make sure you tune in 5 October to listen to my interview with Stephanie.  Octobers guests all have a great story to tell as well as tips, tricks and tools that can help your rise to success!

Natasha Giving Back!

Welcome to my Referral Programme! 

I am so grateful to all of you who have been referring friends, family and colleagues to me, that I have decided to give something back! 

It took me a while to figure out how I could do that and finally decided to offer FREE coaching & EFT minutes for your referrals! 

This is how it works, every time you refer someone, who becomes a client and has a minimum of 3 sessions with me, you will receive 15 FREE minutes, to be taken as you prefer. 

You can use the minutes as soon as you receive them or you can save them and have a longer session! 

All you have to do is make sure that the person you refer tells me you referred them!  Or you can advise me directly! 

Some referrals like to be contacted by me to find out more before they book a session, in which case, you need to send me their details (with their permission of course) and I will contact them to see if Coaching and EFT is what they need.

Contact me so I can send you your Referral Card +32 476 579 399 or email info@natashaabudarham.com

WIth love and many thanks to you all who have contributed to me living my dream!