Are you ready to Breakthrough your Success Barriers?

I don’t know about you, but breaking through the barriers that keep me small are at the top of my to do list.  It was only a couple of weeks ago when I had a head on collision with two major barriers that I didn’t realise were lurking in my reality.  My birthday, 16 June, was the day after the total eclipse of the moon, which brought about massive shifts for many people.   In order to shift and transform the realities that no longer serve you, you have to face that which is causing you a low vibration.

In my case, I had a good old dose of the ‘I’m a failure and I can’t do anything right’.  I cried, had a mini tantrum, cried some more then had a great healing session with one of my closest friends, Sasha Allenby and in less than an hour we managed to move through this pattern that I’d been holding onto for 7 years!  Thank goodness Sasha was on hand to get me through it because otherwise I’m not sure my birthday would have turned out to be as beautiful as it was.

The next day I experienced another huge transformation.  Little did I know that I’d been a carrier of the ‘there’s not enough’ syndrome.  I tell ya, that one took a while to uncover, who would have thought, me of all people held that belief inside me..well it just goes to show, even when you’re in the coaching/mentoring/healing business, you still have to work on yourself to clear the pesky little patterns that keep ya capping your capabilities.

Why am I telling you all this?

First of all, I want you to know that I’m human and I go through tough times just as much as you do.  Secondly, if I’m experiencing this stuff and clearing it successfully, then I want to help you do exactly the same.  When I raise my vibration and ultimately my consciousness, I open up the space to allow you to do it too.

So here’s the deal, I had a great opportunity to be part of ‘The Shift – Women On Purpose’ Telesummit organised by Christine Laureano.  Twelve teachers living life on purpose came together to bring you valuable teachings to help you on your journey.

You can still watch these for free just click on the link below and register:

http://wahmcart.com/x.php?adminid=2630&id=9756

As part of my commitment to you, I’d like to work with some of you who are committed to your own success and hence want to breakthrough the current barrier which is holding you back from achieving more Happiness, Fulfilment and Success.  All you have to do, if you haven’t already is watch my video, take notes and answer some questions.  When you’ve you’ve answered the questions I’d like to offer you some time with me.  Now this time is precious and limited, I have a 7 week old baby and for me to give you my time, I have to make sure she’s looked after by someone else.

So here’s the scoop.  I’m offering you 2 x 45 minute breakthrough sessions, you’ll get pre-work, post-work and during the 3 weeks you’ll get homeplay (homework to those who don’t know what homeplay is), plus email support.

All of this for just £147.  Bargain!

If it’s time for you to get closer to living a life you love, then answer the following questions based on my video for ‘The Shift – Women On Purpose’ and email them back to info@natashaabudarham.com.  The first 5 people to correctly answer the questions get to do some serious inner alignment and guess what happens when you align on the inside…yep, you profit on the outside, whether that’s in your business, relationships, health, career, spirituality….any aspect of your life!

Here’s the questions:

1. What are the 3 fundamental steps that I share during the video?

2. List the 5 steps in the ‘Flow Through Process’

3. What AHA’s, insights or learnings did you have through watching the video?

Here’s the link to ‘The Shift – Women On Purpose’: http://wahmcart.com/x.php?adminid=2630&id=9756

You’re half way through the year, be good to yourself and make it your best year yet!

To your Ultimate Happiness, Fulfilment & Success!

Love,

Natasha x

Where’s all the worth gone?

Last week I was sorting through an old folder and found a list of goals that I’d written when I was living in Argentina in 2006.  I’d replied to an ad on an Expat website, that said something like this:

• Are you tired and lacking energy?
• Would you like to be happier and enjoy life more?
• Are there things you are missing out on?
• Is it time for change?

I ticked all the boxes and oh yes, I was definitely ready for change, so I immediately signed on the dotted line!  A few days later a lovely American Woman came to our apartment and Chris and I started some Coaching sessions.

The first thing she got us to do was to write out our 1 month, 3 month and 6 month goals, 9 in total, 3 items in each area.  When I found the paper, I reminisced the 5 months we’d been in Buenos Aires.  We’d had a great time, met loads of people, ate amazing food, drank delicious beer and wine but could have enjoyed it more if we hadn’t been tied to our jobs.

At the time, I was in desperate mode and just about had my head above water.  As usual I was trying harder and harder and wouldn’t give up.  Whilst this trait has served me in many ways, it’s also been a detriment and kept me doing things for far longer than I should have, with little or no reward.

The fact is, you can keep doing the same thing over and over with little or no reward but it ain’t gonna change much.  These are the things you want to drop like a hot potato and try something different, even if you have no idea if the change will actually change anything!

So when I read through my 9 goals, I wasn’t let’s say jumping with joy.  When Chris came home, I showed him the paper and with a big smile he said ‘ you’ve done well, look at how much you’ve achieved’.  I sighed and said ‘are you taking the p*@*s’.  He said ‘no, you have done well, are you taking the p*@*?’.  I proceeded to go through each goal and explained why I’d failed so miserably.

I then caught myself.  I was in one of my recurring themes, running it like a well known film.  I’d become blindsided, focusing on what I hadn’t achieved.  Everyone has non-serving recurring themes, you can pin point yours by becoming aware of your inner self talk and mistakes that you seem to make over and over.

Once it was in my awareness, I was able to open my eyes and mind and read the goals in a different context and yes I had achieved them, 100%.  Why is this story relevant and why am I sharing it with you?  The point is that if I’m falling into this behaviour, then it’s likely that you are too.

Take a look at where you are devaluing yourself unnecessarily and do what you’ve got to, to raise that self worth through the roof.  We’ve been trained long enough to put everything but ourselves first and I’m asking you to stop doing that.  Put yourself first, open your eyes to your worth and if you know that there is more out there waiting for you, then don’t let anything get in the way.  Because your ego will find every excuse to keep you small and so will other people.

People who are stuck in their own low self worth stuff, people who stopped dreaming long ago and people who would begrudge you having what you want.  Don’t get me wrong they don’t do it to hurt you, in fact quite the opposite, they think they’re helping you but in fact they’re just consulting their own writings on their walls, which is telling them they can’t have what they want.

And the people closest to you, the ones who love you can also sabotage your success.  It doesn’t matter how much they love you, how hard you try to explain to them or how much they get you, they can’t possibly share the same feelings as you because they aren’t you.  They aren’t inside your body, feeling what you’re feeling, seeing what you’re seeing, thinking what you’re thinking or hearing what you hear.

If you have that deep knowing that you are here for something more than you are sharing right now, then you must start listening to that voice of wisdom.  The inner you, the perfect you, the all knowing you, is on your side and will help you get to where you’re supposed to be.

You can have what you want and do you know how I know, because I have what I want and if I can have it then so can you.

Put yourself first, own up to what’s keeping you small and do what you’ve got to do to make it happen.  When you’re happy and fulfilled, everyone around you benefits so much more than when you deny yourself your truth.

Love,

Natasha